People are like body parts. Their roles vary tremendously in our human experience. Some feel vital to life; some have a little less significant contribution, some we can live without, and some like to keep making painful stones to carry and pass.
Try not to blame today. Instead, assume all occurrences are outcomes of my own reasoned choices.
What has occurred in our lives and experiences that dissuades us from pursuing what we want? My illusion started to crumble with a pair of roller skates.
We purchased new laminate flooring for the entire house and knew we could totally tackle installation and save a few bucks. At least it sounded logical at the time. This was four years ago.